SEX!!! and sexuality.

I want to have MAD, CRAZY, mind blowing, earth shattering, orgasmic, heaven-sending sex...

I kinda prefer girl-on-girl action...

Two random statements that state the difference between sex and sexuality to me.

I'm not tryna make this into one gender, women liberation type thing, I just wanna talk about sex...

Why sex? you might ask, why NOT sex? I ask in return.

Imagine you standing in the midst of a crowd, you and your friend, talking and chatting, loud music, people minding their various businesses and just when you are about to say either of the two above statements, it goes quiet and BAM!!!

Everyone hears and they begin throwing daggers in guise of looks your way...

Some are even downright disgusted, while some are gradually creating a distance.

The men give you appraising looks and almost bring out their checkbooks to write an agreed sum depending on how long the night is gonna be...

I'm not attacking the men here, I wanna address the women.

Could it be that they have NEVER HAD SEX?

Or worse, they've never had an ORGASM???

Shhhhhhh!!! thats not even real.. Women don't orgasm; thats why we prefer 'FOREPLAY'.

If you still find yourself living in that address, WAKE UP!!! Smell the coffee!!! Walk around and see that the world has actually moved on while you're still wrapped up in your self-made cocoon.

Gone are the days when women would lie on their backs and the men do the jobs while you make all the fake noises and keep praying in your crazy minds "Dear God, let him come NOW!!!"

Statistics have shown that more than half of women actually go through life having sex and yet never EXPERIENCING it.

Oh yeah! It is an experience indeed. What? you've never had sex that drained you off your bodily fluids? Or you lay back for five minutes cos you're sure your feet won't hold you?

Or you scream till you're hoarse and get to biting the pillow?

Am I wild? or Freaky?

Have you even had a hickey? No, I'm not talking rough sex or bondage and whips. If you swing that way, all well and good.

Sex is an experience, regardless if you are gay or straight..

As a matter of fact, its a tad selfish. Everyone has a goal- SATISFACTION.

The world has changed, you see your friend looking healthy and happy and glowing and you wonder...

Sex has a lot to do with it. Don't believe me? Google it... Go on, type 'the benefits of sex'.

All I'm trying to say is that we need to move away from the notion that women are not supposed to enjoy sex; we need to wash our minds and change the mindset that sex is overrated.

We need to understand the fact that sex is a big deal and its not only for procreation.

Its been widely said that every guy wants a lady in the streets and a freak in the bed... I would give that statement more thought if I were you.

NO, this post wasn't brought about by crazy, orgasmic and mind-blowing sex...

Ladies... BE BOLD>>>